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There's a problematic story our culture tells about sexuality and ageing: that discovery happens in your twenties and that by midlife you should have everything sorted out simply accept a slow decline. This story is wrong, and believing it might be keeping you from one of the most beautiful chapters...
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Real listening, the kind that actually creates intimacy and connection, requires something more than just hearing words and formulating replies. It requires being genuinely present with another person's experience without immediately trying to fix it, relate it back to yourself or jump to conclusions about what they mean. Active listening...
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Most of us grew up with a binary understanding of consent. Someone either wants to have sex or they don't. Yes or no. Once you get that initial yes, you proceed until someone explicitly says stop. The problem is that this treats consent like a contract you sign at the...
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Sexual anxiety affects far more people than most realise. I know this because I've experienced it myself, and in my work with Evie, I witness how performance pressure transforms what should be pleasurable connection into genuine stress and shame. Many men carry this burden silently, convinced they're alone whilst everyone...
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For most of my adult life, I believed that my interests defined my masculinity. The whiskey collection, the sports knowledge, the way I carried myself in rooms full of other men. These things felt essential to who I was as a man. It never occurred to me that I might...
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There's something extraordinary about observing the person you love completely in their power, emanating warmth, sensuality and deep presence whilst creating intimacy with another person. Five years ago I couldn't have imagined writing those words, yet this is where life has led us. Compersion describes the authentic joy I experience...
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Throughout my adult years, I've consistently found myself drawn to women romantically and have exclusively formed deep relationships with female partners. Yet I've recently come to understand something fascinating about my own sexuality: I can experience authentic attraction towards men, but only when feminine energy forms part of the equation....
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